There will be times where you’re challenged where…

There will be times where you’re challenged, where nothing seems to be going right, where tragedy strikes you , and you’re left to pick up the pieces.
These experiences leave us feeling weak and hopeless.
But that’s not the reason to stay down for long.
No matter what you’re going through in life, other people just like you have gone through the same or worse and come out stronger on the other side.
It’s time like this you need to be strong and never give up.

Human.

” I slept and I dreamed that life is all joy. I woke and I saw that life is a service. I served and I saw that service is   a joy.
An eye for an eye , and the whole world would be blind.
Do not fear the thorns in your path , for they draw only corrupt blood. “

The more , the less

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“The more you connect , the less you connect.”
It’s true when people say that this day is the era of autism.
Nowadays, people connect more to their smartphone better than they connect with their friends.
It’s just hit me when people around me start to complain about “my autism”.
It makes a huge distance between me and them , although we sit next to each other.
Time to be a smart user. Time to change.
Time to make less connect with your gadget , and start to connect more with the people you love.
Be a smart user.

Solo show

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He pulls the thick woolen sweater up , over my head
Little sparks of static dance across my skin
Does it hurt ? He says ,  running his hands gently over my warm body
It is your own little firework show , I whisper.

Today.

” Forget yesterday -it has already forgotten you.
Don’t sweat tomorrow – you haven’t even met.
Instead , open your eyes and your heart to a truly precious gift – today. “

educate yourself

” When you have no education , it’s like being in a small room with many people.

There is little opportunity available to you, and many people are competing with you. But as you educate yourself, the room grows.  You have more opportunities , and less people competing with you. ”

There is never too late to learn something.
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true happiness

“As we get older , we find out that true happiness is not in how much we make or how many degrees we have or how big our house is or how fancy our car is.

It’s finding peace and joy and a calmness in our life that will soon become the most important thing to us.

Our family is what really matters to us , love is what matters to us.

Things that are of quality , not quantity. “

value

If it were universally asked : What precious stone would you like to be?

Most would desire to be likened to a diamond , that glitters brilliantly in the light and is coveted by all who glimpse it.

But i know that a diamond has been changed. It has been cut and sanded and polished.

It barely resembles itself.  It has become what the world wishes it to be.

If it is not put through the long procedure to make it beautiful , then it will be called ugly.

 

But as for me,

i wish to be like a pearl. a perfect , smooth , pure orb.

From a living creature , not some cold, unfeeling mountain.

Beautiful by nature.

To find one is difficult. It takes great skill and effort. But once is found, the work is finished.

No one who looks at pearl says, “i wish it different.”

Because it has been formed in the soft flesh of nurturing animal.  And it has waited.

Nature has decided to make it perfect. Not one man would dare change a pearl.

lesson of life

There was this man who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water.
He decided to save it by stretching out his finger , but the scorpion stung him.
The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water , but the scorpion stung him again.
Another man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that kept stinging him.
But the man said , “it is the nature of the scorpion to sting. it is my nature to love. why should i give up my nature to love just because it is the nature of the scorpion to sting? “

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love is patient and kind.
it does not envy or boast.
it is not arrogant.

don’t give up of loving..
don’t give up your goodness even if the people around you “sting” you…
the greatness comes not when things are always going well for you, but the greatness comes when you’re really tested.

when you take some knocks , some disappointments , when sadness comes…
keep your trust in God,
because He loves you unconditionally.

live your life

life is not just waking up one morning,
and saying ok I want this to happen…
it’s about getting out there and going for it…

life is full of surprises…
here, there and everywhere…
you never know where you will end up
…or who you will end up with,
you just have to trust your faith and keep God close…

never say never, because you know you can do it…
never say later, do it right now…
never let people bring you down, they will do anything to watch you fall…
so keep your head up and your heart strong…
and then you can never go wrong…

for all the woman…

BE A WOMAN…

WHO ALWAYS LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF AND BE THE PERSON THAT WHO YOU WANT TO BE

WHO ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND NEVER BE AFRAID TO EXPRESS YOURSELF OR YOUR FEELINGS

WHO NEVER BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF BECAUSE LIFE IS FULL OF MISTAKES AND WE GROW UP FROM OUR MISTAKES

WHO ALWAYS BE THANKFUL FOR ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE AND NEVER REGRET FOR THE BAD BECAUSE YOU CAN TAKE IT AS LESSON OF LIFE

WHO BELIEVE IN MIRACLES AND DARE TO MAKE MISTAKES , BECAUSE LIFE HAS BIG PLANS FOR YOU

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dear mom ,

if i could give you diamonds , for each tear you cried for me…

if i could give you sapphires , for each truth you’ve helped me see…

if i could give you rubies , for the heartache that you’ve known…

if i could give you pearls , for the wisdom that you’ve shown…

but,

i have no pearls , no diamonds, no rubies, or sapphires

as i’m sure you’re well aware

So i’ll give you gifts more precious

my devotion , love , and care…

the introverts

How to care for introverts :

– respect their need for privacy

– never embarrass them in public

– let them observe verse in new situations

– give them time to think. Don’t demand instant answer

– don’t interrupt them

– give them advanced notice of expected changes in their lives

– give them 15 minutes warnings to finish whatever they are doing before calling them to have dinner or moving on to the next activity

–  reprimand them privately

– teach them new skills privately rather than in public

– enable them to find one best friend who has similar interests and abilities , encourage this relationship even if the friend moves

– do not push them to make a lots of friend

– respect their introversion. Don’t try to remake them into extroverts